Enable gossip encryption (#14640)

* Enable gossip encryption

* Fix order

* Auto-generate key

* Update gorp fork to include BeginTx

* Add a test for InsertIfExists

And point gorp to a custom branch for now

Co-authored-by: mattermod <mattermod@users.noreply.github.com>

vendor/github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3/sqlite3_libsqlite3.go

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-// Copyright (C) 2014 Yasuhiro Matsumoto <mattn.jp@gmail.com>.
+// Copyright (C) 2019 Yasuhiro Matsumoto <mattn.jp@gmail.com>.
 //
 // Use of this source code is governed by an MIT-style
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ package sqlite3
 #cgo CFLAGS: -DUSE_LIBSQLITE3
 #cgo linux LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 #cgo darwin LDFLAGS: -L/usr/local/opt/sqlite/lib -lsqlite3
+#cgo darwin CFLAGS: -I/usr/local/opt/sqlite/include
 #cgo openbsd LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 #cgo solaris LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 */