add docker-compose for ci (#11795)

* add docker-compose for ci

* docker-compose logs does not have the option to set the dc file

* leverage docker-compose extends

This moves the developer `docker-compose.yml` to the root, extending the `build/docker-compose.yml` and overriding the `container_name` to preserve compatibility with the older, non-docker-compose setup.

Note that this required downgrading to docker-compose 2.4's file format (still supported by the newer tooling) due to the long and frustrating converstaion at https://github.com/moby/moby/issues/31101.

* remove -f docker-compose-ci.yml references

build/docker-compose.yml

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-version: '3.4'
+version: '2.4'
 services:
   mysql:
     image: "mysql:5.7"