MM-21012: Revamp websocket implementation (#16620)

* MM-21012: Revamp websocket implementation

We replace the old gorilla/websocket implementation with the
gobwas/ws library. The gorilla library was in maintenance mode
and had a high level API due to which we cannot use that for
situations where a large number of concurrent connections needs
to be supported.

The ws library is a very low-level library that allows us
to work with raw net.Conns. We make several improvements:

- We completely remove the reader goroutines, and instead
replace them with a manual epoll implementation which sends off
messages to be read when it receives any data on the connection.
This lets us scale to a much larger number of connections.
- The reader buffer is eliminated, because we directly read
from the connection now.

https://mattermost.atlassian.net/browse/MM-21012

```release-notes
Improved the websocket implementation by using epoll manually
to read from a websocket. As a result, the number of goroutines
is expected to go down by half.
```

* fix tests

* fix shadowing errors

* final changes

* windows support!

* Remove pointer to waitgroup

* Fix edge case

* Trigger CI

* Trigger CI

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i18n/en.json

@@ -3574,6 +3574,10 @@
     "id": "api.user.verify_email.token_parse.error",
     "translation": "Failed to parse token data from email verification"
   },
+  {
+    "id": "api.web_socket.connect.check_origin.app_error",
+    "translation": "Invalid Origin header set during websocket upgrade."
+  },
   {
     "id": "api.web_socket.connect.upgrade.app_error",
     "translation": "Failed to upgrade websocket connection."