Switch to Postgres when running tests and turn off the fsync setting (#13678)

* Run all tests fasts in postgres

* Moving postgres config to a file

* Addressing PR review comments

* Testing against mysql in the CI to keep things less changed

* Revert "Testing against mysql in the CI to keep things less changed"

This reverts commit fc940c111db269a821c54e005d76df87cb70e031.

* Fixing a test broken in postgres but working in mysql

* Fixing some tests

* Fixing some config tests with postgres

* Fixing the rest of config tests

* Fixing govet error

* Fixing search tests for postgres

build/docker/postgres.conf

@@ -0,0 +1,3 @@
+listen_addresses = '*'
+fsync = off
+full_page_writes = off