MM-8622: improved plugin error handling (#8692)

* don't report an error on plugin activation if already active

* improved plugin logging events

Log an error when a plugin's ServeHTTP fails, or when it unexpectedly
terminates.

Restart a plugin at most three times, allowing its failure to later
bubble up under the "failed to stay running" status.

* clarified plugin activation/deactivation

Avoid repeatedly activating when any configuration bit changes. Improved
logging.

* constrain plugin ids to ^[a-zA-Z0-9-_\.]+$ and enforce minimum length

Previously, the plugin id was used unsanitized to relocate the plugin
bundle, which allowed writing outside the `plugins/` directory by using
an `id` containing `../`.

Similarly, an empty string was accepted as an id and led to unexpected
error messages.

* remove plugins by manifest path, not id

If the id within the manifest ever diverges from the actual plugin
location, it becomes impossible to remove via the API. Instead, if the
plugin is found by id, remove the path containing the manifest.

* ignore plugins with nil manifests

If a plugin was detected, but had a manifest that couldn't be parsed, it
will be left nil but still be listed among the packages. Skip over these
in most cases to avoid segfaults.

* leverage mlog more effectively for plugins

* build issues

plugin/rpcplugin/main.go

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ func Main(hooks interface{}) {
 }
 
 // Returns the hooks being served by a call to Main.
-func ConnectMain(muxer *Muxer) (*RemoteHooks, error) {
+func ConnectMain(muxer *Muxer, pluginId string) (*RemoteHooks, error) {
 	buf := make([]byte, 1)
 	if _, err := muxer.Read(buf); err != nil {
 		return nil, err
@@ -43,5 +43,5 @@ func ConnectMain(muxer *Muxer) (*RemoteHooks, error) {
 		return nil, err
 	}
 
-	return ConnectHooks(muxer.Connect(id), muxer)
+	return ConnectHooks(muxer.Connect(id), muxer, pluginId)
 }